How I Changed My Life in Three Steps

1) The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck

There is an overwhelming plethora of self improvement books. I find most of them shitty. If there’s one book you should read, it’s this one. It’ll help you set the right values and spend the finite number of f*cks you’re given in this life efficiently. For me, the #1 value is now honesty — to other people and to myself as well.

The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life

2) YearCompass

As surprising as it may seem, lots of people don’t take their time to look back into their past. Or at least, not as thoroughly as they should. Neither did I — mistake!

3) Talk to Your Friends

Once you’ve done your homework — you set the right values, looked into your past and dreamed big about your future, it’s time to talk to your friends.

A pair of tennis balls

Good Hunting

Is there a skeleton hiding in your closet? Lock and load! It’s time kick the shit out of the bastard!



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